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| A Gift of Life on
New Year’s Day |
| My eleven-year-old
niece’s miraculous recovery from a skiing accident |
by Margaret
Dickow
Northern California, United States |
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| It was early in the day on New
Year’s Eve—December 31, 2003—when my brother Charles
called me. He said that my brother Peter had just called him from
the emergency room at a hospital near Lebanon, New Hampshire, where
Peter and his family had been on a skiing trip. My niece, Kimberly,
had been in a serious accident. |
| On Kimberly's first run down the
mountain, she apparently lost control and headed into a grove of trees
next to the slope. Her father saw her go whizzing by at breakneck
speed and skied down after her. When he got to the bottom of the run,
he saw a group of people gathered around someone lying next to a tree.
It was Kimberly—with her head split open, bleeding profusely.
She was airlifted to a nearby hospital and rushed into the trauma
room. The doctors were unable to give my brother any hope that she
would live through the night. The “best case” scenario,
they told him, was that she would survive but be completely paralyzed
or have severe brain damage. |
I got off the phone and I immediately
started to remember and invoke Avatar Adi Da and request His Blessings
in a feeling-prayer—that this sweet eleven-year-old girl be
allowed to live, and not find herself a paraplegic or worse for
the rest of her life.
I called Adidam Samrajashram—where my Divine Guru was residing
at the time—and relayed the message of my niece’s condition
to Indigo (the devotee responsible for submitting requests for Beloved*
Adi Da’s Blessing) and to my son, Jonah, who was there on
retreat.
Indigo called me back and asked me to email photos of Kimberly
and her family, and to immediately write a letter to Avatar Adi
Da about Kimberly’s situation. I felt that I had not a minute
to waste. But I also felt very strongly that my Beloved Guru already
knew of this situation and was Present there, with Kimberly and
her family. This was so clear. It was also clear to me that surrendering
the situation into His hands was my only possible gesture and responsibility. |
| After I sent the photos (which
took several hours to locate since they had to be digital, and this
was New Year’s Eve, and my family was in the midst of a crisis),
I stayed up to watch a video of a recent devotional sighting, or Darshan,
of Avatar Adi Da. And I continued to stay up, all night long, as awake
as I have ever been, with all my attention on this link between Avatar
Adi Da and my niece, unconscious in a hospital room on the East Coast.
It seemed that there was no time or space separating any of us. |
INDIGO: It was late at night
and I was hesitant to disturb Avatar Adi Da. I tried to convince
myself that Kimberly would live through the night and that I could
send the request for Blessing in the morning, when Avatar Adi Da
usually received them, and all would be well. But I was also seized
by the strong intuition that Kimberly would not live—that
this girl needed the greatest Help possible, and she needed it now.
In my deepest heart, I was certain that Avatar Adi Da was the One
Who could help her most, whether she lived or died, that medical
science could only deal with the physical body, while Avatar Adi
Da could Influence the body, the psyche, the entire “package”
that was Kimberly. He alone would know—and Do—what she
needed in that moment, what would be most beneficial and auspicious.
It was 11:00 PM. I took a deep breath and printed the photographs
that Margaret had sent of Kimberly, Peter, Jonah, and herself. I
placed them on a tray, along with the letters from Margaret and
Jonah prayerfully requesting Avatar Adi Da’s Blessing for
Kimberly. I also gathered flowers—as many as I could find
with my flashlight at that hour of night.**
Then I called Ruchiradama Quandra Sukhapur (a member of the renunciate
order of devotees in the Way of Adidam) to tell her about the situation.
She asked me a few questions, and then agreed that the request for
Blessing should be taken immediately to Avatar Adi Da’s house.
In the kitchen of His house, I talked to Jacqueline, the devotee
who was attending to Avatar Adi Da that night, telling her about
the need to ask for His Blessing for Kimberly. Looking over the
tray to make sure that everything was in order, she entered Avatar
Adi Da’s private quarters.
I waited in the kitchen for about ten minutes until Jacqueline
came out. She looked overcome with astonishment at what had occurred.
She told me that Avatar Adi Da had instantly stopped what He was
doing and received the request. He rearranged the photographs on
the tray, putting Kimberly in the center, and the photographs of
her father, her Aunt Margaret, and her cousin Jonah around her.
(Margaret had not been able to find a photo of Kimberly’s
mother on such short notice.) He then placed His hand an inch or
two above Kimberly’s picture for a moment, and started moving
His hand in a slow, clockwise motion, as if to move the loving energy
of Kimberly’s family in towards her. Avatar Adi Da did this
for some moments, then started the process all over again, holding
His Blessing hand over Kimberly, and then waving His hands in the
same clockwise motion. Then He sent the tray into His Sukra Kendra,
the Holy Temple reserved for His use, where He goes every day to
do His mysterious Work of world-Blessing. |
MARGARET: When Indigo called
me and told me of Avatar Adi Da receiving the tray of photographs
and prayers for Blessing, the light in the room where I was became
“Bright” with His Presence. She said the tray went into
His room one minute after midnight, Fiji time. This struck my heart
so profoundly—that His very first action of the New Year was
to Bless a little eleven-year-old girl who was in a perilous position.
Words cannot express the gratitude that I felt—and also the
certainty that Kimberly would be fine. |
I spoke to my brother several
times the next morning. He said that Kimberly had briefly opened
her eyes, which everyone felt to be a good sign. And he also said
that—“miraculously”—the huge swelling of
her brain that the doctors had been monitoring, and that they were
very worried about, had not only stopped but was reversing itself.
The doctors said that in brain injuries like Kimberly’s it
usually takes days, if not weeks, for this to occur. The reversal
astounded everyone who was treating her.
I told my brother of Avatar Adi Da’s Blessing, and he was
so truly thankful. |
The doctors had thought that
Kimberly might have to be in the hospital for a long time, perhaps
months. But she was released from the hospital in a little over
a week. This is a hospital where they treat the worst ski injuries
from Vermont and New Hampshire, so they see a lot of traumatic head
injuries. My brother told me that the staff was amazed that the
long-term swelling and all the other effects of this type of injury
had not even happened. The staff at the hospital said more than
once that her speedy recovery was "a miracle".
Within a few weeks, she was back at school. Brain scans showed
no permanent damage. |
| I spoke to my brother Peter today—May
19, 2005—to wish him happy birthday. Kimberly is completely
well, with no signs of trauma. Once again, he expressed his gratitude
and thanks to Avatar Adi Da. And my heart breaks when I remember this
utterly Compassionate Blessing from my Beloved Guru, who so directly
touched and healed this little girl. *Avatar Adi Da’s devotees
sometimes refer to Him as “Beloved”, acknowledging the
love and heart-intimacy of the Guru-devotee relationship.
**The flowers that accompany a request for Blessing are a devotional
offering to Avatar Adi Da. He frequently uses these flowers in His
Work of Blessing, sometimes placing a flower on the part of an individual’s
body (in the photograph) that most requires healing, sometimes even
covering the entire photograph with flowers. |
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